Bapak yg Soleh

Dini hari dia bangun untuk sholat tahajud, berdoa dan membaca Al Quran.
Dan dia harus segera berangkat ke sekolah dekat rumahnya untuk menjualkan aneka mainan anak-anak disana. Dia harus buru-buru sampai disana sebelum tempat itu ditempati oleh pedagang lain. Kalau tidak, dia harus berjualan jauh dari sekolah itu.
Dia hari-harinya harus bekerja keras, untuk membiayai rumah tangganya dan 5 orang anak yang masih sekolah dan masih ada yang balita.

Syukur, anak pertamanya sudah menikah dan anak ke2 bekerja dan dipercaya di rumah keluarga dokter yang juga membiayainya sekolah hingga saat ini kuliah di fakultas hukum. Anak ke 3 bekerja di toko. Dan saat ini bapak ini masih menanggung 5 anak lagi.

Kadang-kadang kami yang sangat mengenal dia, minta tolong dia untuk membantu membersihkan pekarangan rumah kami dan pekerjaan yang kira-kira tidak sanggup kami kerjakan,
Jadi pagi dia harus berjualan dulu sekedar mempertahankan eksistensinya dia disana, lalu dia segera ke rumah kami untuk bekerja.

Kami menilai dia orang yang rajin, pekerja keras, jujur, amanah, tidak pernah mengeluh dan selalu berusaha mengerjakan apa yang kami minta semampunya. Dari raut wajahnya tidak pernah kelihatan susah atau kesal.
Orangnya kuat banget dan elastis. Memotong tanaman bagian yang tinggi dia akan berdiri di ujung tangga, satu kaki di tangga - kaki yang satu mengepit pohon bambu yang akan dipangkas. Atau membersihkan kaca di jendela yang tinggi. Kami melihatnya sangat cemas tapi dia tetap berusaha. Luar biasa orang seperti ini. Tidak ada mengeluhnya sama sekali.
Kalau terdengar azan, dia menghentikan pekerjaannya langsung ke kamar mandi untuk bersuci, wudhu dan sholat. Setelah makan siang dia lanjutkan pekerjaannya hingga selesai, dan dia baru pulang setelah selesai sholat Maghrib.

Dalam bekerja dia serius sekali. Mengikuti falsafah: sedikit bicara banyak bekerja.
Dia sangat syukur dengan apa yang kami berikan padanya.
Benar-benar orang yang amanah.
Mudah-mudahan bisa diambil contoh syukur dan keuletan bapak ini.

Salam dari bapak yang sholeh,
Petikan  dari Rina S

Sabar dan takwa

Tahun demi tahun, dugaan, cubaan dan musibah terus datang berganti.
Apa yang bisa membuat kita tetap kuat, sabar dan tawakal pada Allah?
Banyak orang menjadi sakit, putus asa dan mengalami stress.

Sebagai orang iman, kita harus yakin bahwa semua yang terjadi adalah kehendak Allah dan dengan izin Allah.
Maka bersabarlah dan bertakwalah pada Allah dengan tetap berusaha, banyak ingat pada Allah dan banyak berdoa. Agar kita diberi kekuatan dan tetap dalam keimanan. Amiin.

Di bawah ini ada beberapa dalil dari Al Qur'an dan Hadits yang berkenaan dengan
Sabar dan Takwa:

~ Berfirman Allah ta'ala: "wahai orang-orang yang beriman bersabarlah dan kuatkanlah kesabaranmu dan menyambungkanlah kamu ( dalam amalan) dan bertakwalah pada Allah agar kamu beruntung".
(surat Al Imran ayat 200).

~ Berfirman Allah ta'ala: "Bersabarlah engkau (Muhammad) dan tiada kesabaran kecuali dengan pertolongan Allah dan jangan engkau susah terhadap (kekafiran) mereka, dan jangan menjadi engkau bersempit dada terhadap apa yang mereka upadayakan".
(surat An Nahl ayat 127).

~ Berfirman Allah ta'ala: "Sesungguhnya hanya orang-orang yang sabar yang dicukupkan pahala mereka dengan tanpa batas".
(surat Az Zumar ayat 10).

~ "Dan tidak teraniaya bagi orang yang sabar kecuali Allah menambah kemuliaannya"
[HR. Tirmidzi]

~ "Tanda-tandanya ahli surga ada 7 perkara:
1. memaafkan dari orang yang menganiayanya
2. berbuat baik pada orang yang menjelekan padanya
3. memberi pada orang yang menghalangi-halangi
4. jika diberi maka dia bersyukur
5. jika diberi cobaan maka dia bersabar
6. jika berkata maka dia berkata jujur
7. maka dia orang yang berjalan diantara manusia sebagaimana orang yang hidup
diantara orang yang mati.(tidak akan terpengaruh)
[HR.Dailami]

~ Berfirman Allah ta'ala: "Dan jika Allah menimpakan kemelaratan padamu maka tidak ada yang bisa menghalangi kecuali Allah. Dan jika Allah menghendaki kebaikan padamu maka tidak ada yang bisa menolak pada kefadholan Allah. Dan Allah Maha Pengampun lagi Maha Penyayang".
(surat Yunus ayat 107).

~ Berfirman Allah ta'ala: "Dan barang siapa yang takwa pada Allah maka Dia akan menjadikan pada orang itu jalan keluar.
Dan Allah memberikan rezeki dari mana yang tidak disangka-sangka dan barang siapa yang pasrah pada Allah maka Dia akan mencukupinya. Sesungguhnya Allah melaksanakan perkaraNya sungguh Allah menjadikan pada segala sesuatu kepastian (ada qodarnya)".
(surat At Tholaq ayat 2-3).

Mudah-mudahan dengan berdasarkan dalil-dalil diatas kita bisa lebih yakin akan pertolongan Allah dan lebih berpasrah diri pada Nya.

"Tiada suatu bencana yan menimpa di bumi dan (tidak pula) pada dirimu sendiri, melainkan dia telah tertulis dalam kitab (Lauh Mahfuzh) sebelum Kami menciptakannya".
(QS. Al Hadid: 22)

Tambah lagi dimana ada kesulitan disitu ada kemudahan.
Diujung tanah yang tandus ada tanah yang subur.
Maka sabarlah!!

Beautiful

"Enjoy every smile and every tear, because the most beautiful smile comes after the most painful tear"

"No matter what you look like; You're beautiful in your own way. Don't let anybody bring you down, because the ones that say you're ugly; Are actually the ones that wish they were as beautiful as you are."

"Beauty catches the attention, but personality catches the heart"

Meaning of Roses Colour ;-)

Red Roses: A red rose is an unmistakable expression of love. Red Roses convey deep emotions - be it love, longing or desire. Red Roses can also be used to convey respect, admiration or devotion. A deep red rose can be used to convey heartfelt regret and sorrow.

White Roses: White is the color of purity, chastity and innocence. White flowers are generally associated with new beginnings and make an ideal accompaniment to a first-time bride walking down the isle. White flowers can be used to convey sympathy or humility. They also are indicative of spirituality.

Yellow Roses: Yellow roses are an expression of exuberance. Yellow roses evoke sunny feelings of joy, warmth and welcome. They are symbols of friendship and caring. The yellow rose, like the other roses, does not carry an undertone of romance. It indicates purely platonic emotions.


Pink Roses: There are a lot of variations of the pink rose. Over all, pink roses are used to convey gentle emotions such as admiration, joy and gratitude. Light pink rose blooms are indicative of sweetness and innocence. Deep pink rose blooms convey deep gratitude and appreciation.

Orange Roses: While a yellow rose reminds us of the sun, an orange rose reminds us of a fiery blaze. These fiery blooms signify passion and energy. Orange roses can be used to express intense desire, pride and fervor.

Lavender Roses: A Lavender rose like its color conveys enchantment. It also expresses "love at first sight" .


Blue Roses: A perfectly blue rose is still elusive like the perfectly black rose. Blue roses cannot be achieved naturally so they represent the unattainable or the mysterious.Blue roses therefore embody the desire for the unattainable. They say "I can't have you but I can't stop thinking about you"


Green roses: Green is the color of harmony, of opulence, of fertility. It is also a color indicative of peace and tranquility. Green roses (these are off-white roses with shades of green) can symbolize best wishes for a prosperous new life or wishes for recovery of good health

Black Roses: Black is the color of death and farewell. A black rose, like the blue rose remains elusive. What we know as black roses are actually really dark red roses. Black roses convey the death of a feeling or idea. Sending black roses to someone indicates the death of the relationship.


Mixed Roses: By mixing rose blooms of different colors purposefully, you can create a bouquet of emotions. For example, a bouquet of red and white roses would mean “I love you intensely and my intentions are honourable”.A random mix of roses would convey mixed feelings or send a message: "I don't know what my feelings are yet but I sure do like you enough to send you roses."

Happiness and Sadness

❤ Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it.

❤ The same girl who laughs and talks a lot and seems very happy is also the girl who may cry herself to sleep.

❤ Being happy doesn't mean you're perfect. It just means you've decided to look beyond the imperfections.

❤ A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort.

❤ Everyone wants to be happy and nobody wants to feel pain. But you can't make rainbows without any rain.

❤ The only reason you wont let go of what is making you sad is because it was the only thing that made you happy.

❤ Just keep smiling and pretending you're happy, and then maybe after you've convinced everyone else that you are, you can convince yourself.

❤ Smile; it makes people wonder what you're thinking.

❤ Sometimes pain becomes such a huge part of your life that you expect it to always be there, because you can’t remember a time in you life when it wasn’t. But then one day you feel something else. Something that feels wrong only because it’s so unfamiliar, and in that moment you realize you’re happy .

❤ The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

❤ And we put a fake smile to hide the pain, yet we wish someone would look closely enough and see how broken we really are inside.

❤ You have to be sad sometimes, because if you aren't you forget how wonderful it is to be happy.

❤ Our days are happier when we give people a bit of our heart rather than a piece of our mind.

❤ She had a big heart. no not the ones that donate to charity or take a bullet for someone else. The kind of big heart that accepts too many faults from other people, forgives too easily, gives people more chances than they deserved; despite all that, she still wanted them to be happy. Because if they were, then she was too.

❤ Do what makes you happy, be with who makes you smile, laugh as much as you breathe & love as long as you live.

❤ A happy relationship is made up of two good forgivers.

❤ The soul would have no rainbow if the eyes had no tears.

Meaning of Roses

- 1 Rose Love at the first sight; you are the one
- 2 Roses Mutual love between both, deeply in love with one another
- 3 Roses I love you
- 6 Roses I wanna be yours
- 7 Roses I'm infatuated with you
- 9 Roses An Eternal love, together as long as we live
- 10 Roses You are perfect
- 11 Roses You are my treasured one; the one I love most in my life
- 12 Roses Be my steady
- 13 Roses Secret Admirer
- 15 Roses I am truly sorry, please forgive me
- 20 Roses Believe me, I am sincere towards you
- 21 Roses I am devoted to you
- 24 Roses Can't stop thinking about you, 24 hours everyday
- 33 Roses Saying "I love you" with great affection
- 36 Roses I will remember our romantic moments
- 40 Roses My love for you is genuine
- 50 Roses Regretless love, this is
- 99 Roses I will love you for as long as I live
- 100 Roses Harmoniously together in a century
- 101 Roses You are my one and only love
- 108 Roses Please marry me!
- 365 Roses Can't stop thinking about you, each and everyday
- 999 Roses Everlasting and Eternal love

Friendship Quote

Friendship quotes

☼ A friend is someone who can see the truth and pain in you even when you are fooling everyone else. 

☼ If you're alone, I'll be your shadow. If you want to cry, I'll be your shoulder. If you want a hug, I'll be your pillow. If you need to be happy, I'll be your smile... But anytime you need a friend, I'll just be me.

☼ There comes a point in your life when you realize who really matters, who never did, and who always will.

☼ Friendship isn't about whom you have known the longest... It's about who came, and never left your side...

☼ Its really amazing when two strangers become the best of friends, but it's really sad when the best of friends become two strangers.

☼ Of all the friends I've ever met, you're the one I won't forget and if I die before you do I'll go to heaven and wait for you.

☼ Anyone can make you smile or cry. But it takes someone special to make you smile
When you already have tears in your eyes.

☼ Friends are like stars, they come and go, but the ones that stay are the ones that glow.

☼ As people grow up, they realize it becomes less important to have more friends, and more important to have real ones.

Nice..nice..nice....